Child-centred working
April 2003 Workshop for Stronger Families Fund Projects
Presentation notes by Tess Ridge for panel session
This talk will cover child-centred working, engaging with children
and where possible involving them in our projects and our
practice.
What do I mean by child-centred working?
- The projects are focused on working with families, but what
do we mean by families. Do we mean parents and wider kin
or do we mean parents, kin and children? It is easy to
concentrate on adults, carers and parents, and overlook
children. We can find ourselves talking to adults when we
don't really see or engage with children.
- We might be working with families and find that children
are playing quietly in the background so we do not disturb
them, or they might be 'being a nuisance' interrupting and
demanding attention when we want to get on with
important things so we might distract them or remove them.
- What is child-centred working? Sometimes I think we can be
working in a way that focuses very intently on the child or
children, and we can feel that, of course, our work is child
focused. But this is not necessarily the same as child-centred
working. To focus on the child is not necessarily to put the
child at the centre. For example in the UK children in the
public care system attend their case reviews. They are
present along with their parents or carers, their social
workers, case workers and so on. This is a review process
that is very much focused on the child and is intended to
address the child's best interests. But it is not child centred.
When you engage with children you find that they find the
whole procedure isolating, in some cases daunting, and in
others humiliating. It is very rare that a child would think
that the process was in any way intended to give children
some rights and say in their lives. In child-centred practice
and enquiry the intention is to try to keep the interests and
the well-being of children central to the process - to do this
you have to engage with children and involve them
wherever possible in the issues that concern them.
Why should we engage children wherever possible in our
projects?
- Do not often hear from children, adults are often presumed
to speak for children so we hear from proxies, parents,
carers, teachers, and so on. But children will have their own
views, perspectives issues that concern them, and they might
well not be the same issues that adults would identify.
- For example, some work with 5-6 year old children in after
school clubs. Wanted to know about how children felt about
their after school clubs. Parents and carers had an important
perspective to contribute. But children also had their own
insights to give. They were unhappy about the lighting, it
was too gloomy in some clubs, some children got hungry
and wished there was some food provided, some were tired
and wished there was somewhere for them to have a quiet
time, not just the structured activities. They were also
concerned about their environment, the quality of the
lighting, the paint on the walls, their access to the garden
and so on. These were all valid and important insights which
affected how those children experienced their care and
which could have easily been overlooked by adults who may
have a different set of concerns.
When we start to think about children in this way we develop a
broader understanding of the types of things that might affect
children's lives
- Many things are affecting children's lives and influence the
type of childhood they are receiving. We may think straight
away about family and extended kin, close social networks ,
neighbours, relatives and carers.
- But children are also social beings in a community, they are
also affected by things outside of the family and home
environment. Their quality of care, how they experience
their creche or nursery , their spatial environment, school
and teachers, friendships and social relationships
- There are also wider issues, children' s space, how the local
environment affects children, their opportunities for play
and social interaction, the impact of traffic on their lives, the
quality of the streets and housing for children, shops and
transport - children will have a contribution to make about
all these areas.
What are the advantages in engaging with children
- There are advantages for your project , it will be more
holistic, families means children as well as parents.
- Insights gained from children can help adults work more
effectively, it can also help to ensure that services that are
provided are relevant to children's needs
- It is also valuable for children themselves.
- Research and participation work with children has shown
that children learn to express their own needs, they learn to
consider the needs of others. They may develop skills of co-
operation, negotiation and problem solving.
- Children and parents may work together and this can
strengthen relationships and foster greater understanding
and respect
- When you involve children and you respect their ideas and
their capabilities they will grow in confidence and self
esteem
How might we involve children?
Not going to be specific here as each
project will be different. But there are some general points:
- Firstly - Child-centred working means being aware of
children at all times. Thinking about how your involvement
with their families may affect them and being open to
engaging with children, listening to them and realising the
potential for them to participate and contribute to your
work.
- We might be working with very young children who may
not be able to contribute in any clear way, but we still need
to be aware of them
- We may be concentrating on very young children and their
parents and fail to see the older siblings, brothers and sisters
who are also in the family, and may have a lot to contribute.
- Children can be involved and participate in many different
ways. You can engage with them individually, or as little
groups. You can talk with them, they can participate in
discussions, community meetings, councils. They can be
researchers, taking photographs of things that concern them,
like the quality of their playgrounds, where they most like to
go, what they like best, or worst about somewhere or
something.
- They can make scrapbooks, videos, work together in groups
to make plays, to design and perform, Keep diaries, use
disposable cameras make drawings etc.
- If we look at one of Maya's the projects for example. She has
been working with small children using disposable cameras.
The children were able to take photographs of where they
were in the same way as the adults. What was interesting to
see was how the children saw the space in a completely
different way to adults. Their photographs were pitched at a
different level, they also identified places and areas as
important that were not considered to be so. For instance,
they identified one room as their favourite room to play in.
Yet this was an area which was rarely used and where
children were quite often told to keep out of. Having the
photographs was also good for the children, they were able
to talk about their spaces and they were able to experience
adults listening and responding to them about what they
think and see. Maya is happy to talk with anyone about this
- There are many different ways to involve children, each
project will have its own focus. But in each case it is worth
having a strong commitment to engaging with children,
seeing and recognizing that children have a perspective too.
I am often told that my work is about giving children a voice, but it is
not giving children a voice that I think is important, they already
have voices. What is important is giving children a hearing, listening to their voices and valuing
their contributions.
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